I used to be a high school student who used to get up early in the morning and attend classes, go to practice, and make sure everything was running smoothly. I used to take my dad to work and he was our driver, so he would take me to that class, then we would drive home. Now when I started working on this blog post I think all of a sudden everything changed when I switched jobs and moved around. The first job I ever took I worked at an engineering firm where I had two assistants that were also driving from one side of town to another. My second job, the one that got me where I am today, is teaching English at community colleges in San Fransisco as well as college-level classes.
If you’re like me, your life went completely upside down when you switch jobs. You might have never expected to change the way that you live or how you interact with people in your new surroundings. When those changes hit you hard, it can seem impossible to escape or stay in your old ways. The biggest thing to remember about getting into a bad relationship or a bad place is that even if they’ve hurt you the most, it doesn’t mean that the relationship is forever or that you lose interest in someone. Just because things aren’t great in the relationship doesn’t mean that it isn’t for you. In fact, there are plenty of reasons why being in a bad relationships makes sense and having no love at all makes you an unlovable person. As mentioned earlier, sometimes when things go wrong in a relationship, it just comes out. If you don’t believe it at first then it will hurt to learn about this fact. There will almost always be times when you feel like you’re losing yourself in the situation. That is not something to be ashamed of. You deserve to be loved and cared for at every level of your relationship and if you feel that way, then it will hurt a lot more than you ever thought possible. Even though I love this guy I still love myself enough to keep doing what makes me happy. Having a strong self-esteem and self-love can help you stand tall and show how much you care for others. Not everyone needs this in some cases, but it’s important to know that because it is easier to hide when you aren’t in control of your emotions.
The worst thing that happens is that most of us have to do all the things for which we should never have to. Our parents teach us these things from an early age and they are meant to protect us and teach us to be responsible. Unfortunately, the majority of us are unable to grasp concepts like the difference between right and wrong or the distinction between good and evil. We don’t understand any of these concepts, and worse yet we don’t try. This is a major reason why you end up with this broken family member. At this point, the only thing for you to do is leave him behind and move forward with life. He is now gone, and you can’t help but let yourself just sink into the dark abyss that surrounds you. Being a teenager is rough because you need your mother and father, but they are not there to protect you, they are there to control you and try to turn all of the good moments and good memories that you will never have into a nightmare if she or he can be found.
In conclusion, if at least one parent in your previous relationships was a loving partner, then that means that there is no reason for you to fall from your own parents. Don’t let them get ahead of themselves and give you away to the world. But, it is also the same with your new neighbors. Once you get past this stage, it seems like nothing has changed much except that you have a different set of values and beliefs. Keep living in the darkness and fear of yourself, and soon you probably won’t even know anymore. Be open to the whole idea that not everything is okay and that you shouldn’t put on a mask of whatever you want to look like. Everyone is going through a tough time in their life and you just never know how long it will last or what the effects will be until some major events happen like a death in your family because of your actions as a child. Trust that you were a kid once too, and it really isn’t too late to turn back. Then, at some point in your adult years, you would be living one day on the other without a single person in your life because of your actions as a child. It can be easy to become complacent and to think that, “I’m lucky, and I wasn’t given anything to fall into like my mom did.” However, there really is nothing to be sorry about.
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